You don’t need a diagnosis or a clear explanation. Feeling concerned is enough. If it's hard to say out loud:
Write your thoughts down before the meeting
Send an email asking for a private conversation
Bring a trusted friend or adult if that makes it feel safer
Reaching out for help can feel uncomfortable or scary, but you don’t need to have the “perfect words” to get support. If you're seeking help, you can start with:
"I'm struggling with food and body image."
"I think I need some help with my relationship with eating."
"I'm not sure what's going on, but I don't feel okay."
If a friend is struggling, your support can make a big difference. Try these steps:
Listen without judgment: Let them share how they feel without interrupting.
Validate their feelings: Say things like, “It makes sense you’re feeling this way.”
Respect boundaries: Offer support, but don’t pressure them to open up before they’re ready.
Encourage professional help: Gently suggest talking to a counselor or doctor.
Check in regularly: Even small messages like “How are you today?” show you care.
Reach out anyway: Talking to a counselor, trusted adult, or helpline is safe even if you’re unsure.
Early help matters: The sooner you seek support, the easier recovery can be.
Self-reflect: Are you restricting food, over-exercising, or worrying about your body in ways that affect daily life?
Take a screening: Use trusted online tools from organizations like NEDA.
Recovery is not a race. You are not alone.